Handling financial hardship and forbearance

These terms are often used interchangeably in the mortgage context. Technically, “forbearance” is the general agreement to pause payments, while “deferment” often refers to the specific solution where the missed payments are moved to the end of the loan. In this case, you resume your normal payments, and the forborne amount becomes a non-interest-bearing balloon payment due when you sell the home, refinance, or pay off the loan.

Yes, a lender can deny a forbearance request if you do not demonstrate a valid financial hardship, if you do not provide required documentation, or if you do not have sufficient equity in the home. If denied, you should immediately discuss other loss mitigation options your servicer may offer.

You will need to repay the missed amounts. You and your servicer will agree on a repayment plan before the forbearance ends. Common options include a repayment plan (adding a portion of the missed payments to your regular bills for a set time), a lump-sum payment (paying the full amount at once, which is less common), or a loan modification (permanently changing the loan terms, such as extending the loan term).

If you cannot afford your original payment even after forbearance ends, you should immediately contact your servicer to discuss a long-term solution. The most common option is a loan modification, which permanently alters your loan terms to create a more affordable monthly payment based on your current financial situation.